Autumn makes room for winter and deep thoughts

Today is Friday and am happy about this. Finally weekend and 2 days off.
With changing my job responsibility 1,5 years ago and then pandemic the pandemic happened to start 3 months later and still ongoing 1,5 years later, additional some severe occasions happened in the company I am working for, still ongoing problems months later, rebuilts to be done and supply chains in the economics not working any more like usual – it is a roller coaster every day. I am talking about real life here and so let me say, it is crazy since then. Will it get better? Not in the next half year and all I read from the economics and experts in newspapers and economic magazines, they expect it will go on like this minimum half a year – into 2022.
My hope, end of this year will be better won’t happen I see raising cases in the pandemic, a new higher amount of positive cases every day, makes everything worse than better.
I am glad, I finally can relax in SL from this real life catastrophes and can be creative, find ways to relax and forget real life – at least a bit. My time for blogging and SL got less with job change and all what is related to it in the the last 1,5 years, also there are times, recently I even couldn’t get at the computer in the evenings to concentrate and getting in the mood I need for my photos, always ran behind, from one deadline to another. Lessen my commitments more and more to get the important things done.
Thats why I stepped back from a lot, I don’t need a burnout like a lot of people I know in my life – being shortly before it myself and to be in the same situation, realising it, brought me to the awareness, it is time to take action on myself. Make room in my spare time for relaxing and don’t get pushed in the times I do as a pleasure and relaxing, to take this for the power for tomorrow in my real life. Also, thinking about actions of others, who doesn’t see it and will never understand situations like this. Let it go for myself! Focus on yourself!
Do you know symptoms of burn out? The early symptoms? No? Better go and inform yourself.
Finally, my time in sl is precious, I can relax, I can reschedule my posts, I am not in the mood? well, make it tomorrow or after tomorrow. While I am in this stage of recovering myself, I realise how important this is for me and my health.
I am appreciating all my friends, designers, sponsors and fellow bloggers in SL around me who understand and support me.
Love you to bits! You all know who you are ! ❤

Thank you my Sweeties!

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Hair / Haare – Foxy – Aiko Hair (Essential)
Head / Kopf – Lelutka – Avalon Evo X
Eyes / Augen – incl. in head
Skin / Haut  – Glam Affair – Steffi – Beige and matching body skin Glam Affair
Meshbody  – Maitreya – Lara
Shape – selfmade


Outfit – MOoH – Fall Outfit ==> @The Secret Garden Nov 1 – 30
This is a Next Up event. MOoH! is offering a full outfit that’s perfect for fall.
19 items as NextUp items (replacement for the gacha machines)
It’s 50L per sale and there’s also a copy/mod fatpack at a discount.



Lyrium – Autumn Walk Set
incl. fence and plants – as well as attachable leaves.

Have fun shopping 🙂


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Thank you so much for visiting and reading my blog,
it is much appreciated.

2 thoughts on “Autumn makes room for winter and deep thoughts

  1. you absolutely hot the nail on its head.. You are and did the right thing.. People who dont understand or go at you tell them to go where the sun doesnt shine.. You are a great person a great friend .. Kind shareing and loving and most of all helpful. Seeing you get kicked by someone who doesnt appreciate you ist aweful. Im glad you stood up to it and changed for a better in sl and rl… Big hugs


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